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One Annoying Habbit of fellow indians which irritate me Most - - - Sadly, this is one of those questions which bring into your mind , not just one answer but the whooooooooole LIST. Still, going with the question, my one word answer is - BACKBITING. Let me now explain it. If you live in a small town, people are so so so much FREE that all they find interest in BACKBITING. And specialized in this are Aunties. Although they would tell you, " Mujhe jo kehna hai main toh muh per hi keh deti hun.. ." Still they are Masters in BACKBITING. The second common dialogue is - " Kehna mat kisi ko ...." Shhhh... But they are the first one to Tell you all the Gossip. And Last but not the least, " Main to kabhi kisi ki buraai karti hi nahi hun. .." Lol. In small towns, this Backbiting take away most of the creative energy from people. Instead of indulging in Gossiping and Backbiting if they do something Productive and Creative, India would become more and more b...

When you read this some years later, you would wonder to know that when I wrote this, you were lying on my lap. I love you a lot. I can’t fathom this “lot”,  no one can, because I don’t show to everyone my love for you. But I will try to tell you here in petty words what kind of love it is.  My love for you is full of dreams and rainbows. When I see you growing up in my dreams, I see you as a bubbly girl dancing in joy, soaked to your soul in the rain of love. I see you as a mature girl, who knows the reason of being here, in this world. I don’t want you to walk on drawn patterns, I want you to draw new lines and see new horizons. You know, when you smile, you touch my soul. Keep smiling always and be different, that’s important. 

This was the cruelest wound ever. Lets understand it this way , till I did not conceive everyone wished I should have a baby, and when I did , they prayed it should be a boy. And when it was a girl, there was more sighs in the air than laughs. No it is not a whole truth. The truth is, my hubby was so happy to see his girl that the tears roll down his cheeks when he first saw her. My father in law was perhaps the least happy person. Even my Mother in law seemed too happy, because she has no girl child and she missed it so much in her life. Living in a joint family all these three years I realized, the society has changed but not that much. Boy-girl issue is still there even in educated families. Before marriage I had never thought that I would face such things after marriage. No wonder, joint family teaches you everything and makes you mature before time.  

I firmly believe, there is nothing called True Love.  Either it is love or nothing. I believe, Love is solely based on Understanding. The more you understand a person, the more you feel close to his/her thoughts and emotions, the more you like them and that's love. 

A woman's life, start from beginning rolls around Duties. A man , while exaggerates his duties at work place, back at home even for a glass of water he is dependent on a woman. Often it is noticed that duties of a minister, officer, teacher and alike are exaggerated. While it is a woman who for 24 hours performs her duties without even recognition. Many a times its just a DUTY for her and not always her heartfelt job. Yes, that's true, when a woman is a daughter-in-law , a wife , a mother, a caretaker for someone, she knows she is performing her duties. Its not that she always feel great to do such things. And who's there to tell her, that Great Job Done ! Duties well performed ! You deserve an award! and that, We are grateful to have you ! No its not being hypothetical ! It is called Recognition. How many times in a day, week or month you recognize that woman of your house is performing her duties. Her duties are of same importance that of the duties of a Minister or ...

This one for you all -  And I am so happy today, I sent post cards to friends. The fragrance of love and relation remains fresh with these little acts. Truly! With love ! # Postcards on Paulo Coelho's blog check out-  Here . 

I miss those times when six years back we used to walk on the terrace and talk heart to heart, soul to soul. The impression of my hostel days still remain dark on my heart. I miss such a friend in my life with whom I can talk and discuss all things close to human development. But does such friendship last forever? I don't know this yet. We have Watsapp, Facebook etc but they do not ensure warmth of any relationship. I think we all do have our Journeys , and we keep meeting new co-travelers . This is what I truly love about this Journey called Life . Whom we even think are our best-est buddies, may be there in our lives for short period. In our journey when we feel we are on Fast Development Mode , our some friends might get left behind. And then we begin to feel the void, and an urge to have a friend with whom we could share our Development Progress or Experiences of  our Journey . There, I guess, we feel the yearning to make New Friends. Those who have similar experiences, ...

That day... I let it be, and decided to believe that Fate is a powerful thing, and we can not always choose what do we want. That day ...  I  was made to believe , God does what is best for us. * This post is written for IndiSpire prompt -   Write one liner, fiction, poetry or experience starting with "That day..."   #ThatDay  

There should be at least one person in your life whom you could tell anything odd-even, truth-lie, fancy, fantasy just Anything.

IndiSpire Topic -  What does happiness mean to you? Do you go looking for happiness?   #Happiness Look everything around for what makes you happy Look back and know the moments that made you happy Look Inside and find what Happiness is  To me it is  A gloomy-red sunset A cup of ginger tea A passionate novel ! Drizzling rains Scooty long drives A day-time movie in Hall ! Dance To have a soulful talk And spend time with loved one... Happiness to me is an Attitude, you can wear it daily, and good if you do. And truly, I don't go looking for it, because I believe its not a Thing placed Outside, it is something you Create. That is why, some people choose to be Happy regardless of any obstacle and problems.  What happiness is for you -  Reply in one word, a sentence, a couplet or in a few lines. Based on memory or fiction, whatever , but plunge in Happiness and you would just love it. via:  thepodphoto.wordpress.com ...